Bella LaVey spent five years as a highly sought-after dominatrix and erotic wrestler known as Evil Kitty. Today, she is a sex and relationship coach, sex educator, and blogger. Her adults-only blog features her advice column, Go Ask Sacred Slut. Her writing has also appeared at elephant journal. LaVey believes sexuality can be a catalyst for emotional and physical healing and hopes to help bring that healing to others through her work as a writer and coach. After many years of journeying to sexual liberation to create a thriving, integrated life of sacred sex, intimacy, kink, dark, light, and deep feminine devotion, she now helps women and men to access their own yet-unliberated sexual selves through three exclusive coaching programs: Sexual Liberation, Shakti Healing, and Kink & BDSM. She lives in Austin, Texas.

Fetish Girl is a kinky roller coaster ride through addiction, violence, motherhood, sex, and the creation of Evil Kitty, Bella LaVey’s larger-than-life dominatrix persona. It is a singular memoir that shows that a heavily tatted BDSM sex worker can be courageous enough to come to terms with her painful truths and raise a healthy, loving child, even as she remains boldly sexual and authentic. It’s the story of a woman attracted to extremes who is willing to go to great lengths to uncover and make peace with her true nature.