Miriam Weinstein writes about family, friendship, how we navigate time, and how we make meaning in our lives. Starting as a documentary filmmaker, then moving into print journalism, she won awards in many categories. Her book, Yiddish: A Nation of Words, won the National Jewish Book Award. Her next book, The Surprising Power of Family Meals: How Eating Together Makes Us Smarter, Stronger, Healthier and Happier, opened a national conversation, with quotes on the front page of the New York Times and in Timemagazine. Weinstein lives in Gloucester, MA with her husband.

When Miriam Weinstein’s good friend died unexpectedly—and other losses followed close behind—it led to a year of introspection and black outfits. All Set For Black, Thanks features the practical concerns that go along with funerals, from how to write and deliver a eulogy (Including endearing, down-to-earth details like “she always burned the garlic bread” or “he never could figure out the remote” bring the subject to closer to life) to larger questions, like why we bring casseroles to the grieving—and what might be a better response. With wit and deep feeling, Weinstein confronts the rough bargain of human existence: no one gets out of here alive, but we live as if the lives of our loved ones have no end. In stories and portraits, she shows how we can both let our dead go and keep them with us as we go on living.