“With grace and keen wit Miriam Weinstein provides a survivor’s manual for all who face loss. Colleagues, friends, and loved ones die frequently in her account. This book is a love letter to them, as well as a guide to those left behind. Weinstein teaches us how to mourn as well as how to embrace the gift of life that is still ours.”
—Daniel Jacobs, Director, Center for Advanced Psychoanalytic Studies
When Miriam Weinstein’s good friend died unexpectedly—and other losses followed close behind—it led to a year of introspection and black outfits. All Set For Black, Thanks features the practical concerns that go along with funerals, from how to write and deliver a eulogy (Including endearing, down-to-earth details like “she always burned the garlic bread” or “he never could figure out the remote” bring the subject to closer to life) to larger questions, like why we bring casseroles to the grieving—and what might be a better response. With wit and deep feeling, Weinstein confronts the rough bargain of human existence: no one gets out of here alive, but we live as if the lives of our loved ones have no end. In stories and portraits, she shows how we can both let our dead go and keep them with us as we go on living.
Author: Miriam Weinstein
Publication Date: September 13, 2016
