Stay, Breathe with Me

“A wonderful book [for] palliative care workers, doctors, patients, families, anyone interested in learning how to treat a human being nearing the end of life. While some language describing trigger points of pain or the care required, may not be understood by everyone, stick with it as the book will fill you with admiration for [these] hard-working caregivers and a better understanding of palliative care. It may also give you hope that when our time comes, we will be taken care of just as well as the people who have shared their stories here.”
San Francisco Book Review

Serious illness is a drama of body, mind, and soul where symptoms and suffering cannot be separated from the person who is ill.  Yet that is what happens because our medical system, so focused on technology and cure, loses sight of the person behind the illness. The result is cruel and needless suffering.

It’s time to revive the Art of Care. If we fully embrace the human side of illness, if we remove the false barriers separating caregivers from the seriously ill, we can meet in that space of shared humanity and universal human needs. This is the space of heart and compassion where healing hands can be guided by the wisdom of the patient, a space where suffering eases.

From the voices of the seriously ill and the lifelong experience of a pioneer in palliative care, comes the drama of patient stories showing how we can bring heart back into healthcare and compassion where we need it most.

Author:Irene and Helen Allison

Publication Date: June 7, 2016

 

Description

“A remarkable book. On just about every page are little pearls of sound clinical wisdom and truths about the ways we might do better. Anybody who works in palliative care will enjoy and benefit from reading this book. ”
—Dr. Roger Woodruff, International Association for Hospice and Palliative Care

“A wonderful book [for] palliative care workers, doctors, patients, families, anyone interested in learning how to treat a human being nearing the end of life. While some language describing trigger points of pain or the care required, may not be understood by everyone, stick with it as the book will fill you with admiration for [these] hard-working caregivers and a better understanding of palliative care. It may also give you hope that when our time comes, we will be taken care of just as well as the people who have shared their stories here.”
San Francisco Book Review

“Recounts scenarios that exemplify both best and worst practices, making a strong case for palliative care through clear and descriptive language. Medical professionals can use Allison’s experience to enhance their understanding of palliative care, while caregivers will be encouraged to provide a noble service.”
Library Journal

“Unlike much of medical literature, even in the area of death and dying, this volume by Helen Allison and Irene Allison is written from the heart and speaks to the heart. Therein lies its transformative power. As a former palliative care physician and future dying human, I am profoundly grateful.”
—Gabor Maté M.D., best-selling author of When The Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress

“I hope this deeply compassionate, wise and enchanting book will be widely read by those who work in ‘mainstream’ medicine, and not just palliative care. We forget that suffering is often the cause and not just the result of illness. Palliative care, with its focus on the alleviation of suffering and the healing power of compassion, has so much to teach modern medicine.”
—Robin Youngson, MD, co-founder of Hearts in Healthcare, author of Time to Care: How to Love your Patients and your Job

“Helen Allison, a compassionate, caring nurse with a special insight into the feelings of patients in pain and a nurse who must have been loved and respected by patients and peers. This book is a must read for all health care professionals.”
—Rhoda Anderson, President, Lakes District Unit, Canadian Cancer Society, Hospice Volunteer, Canada

“Takes us to the places where we feel uncomfortable and fear to go, but where we need to go in order to provide true, holistic palliative care.”
—Millie Cumming-Chalmers, MD, Palliative Care Physician, Canada

“Stories filled with compassion, empathy, and wisdom―heartwarming and instructive.”
—Sandra Martin, The Long Goodbye columnist, The Globe and Mail, author of A Good Death: Making the Most of our Final Choices

About the Authors

Helen Allison, R.N., B.A., B.S.W., M.S.W. – Scottish highlander by birth, Canadian by home, Helen was born with healing hands and a caregiving heart. During her long career as a palliative nurse and medical social worker, Helen pursued a person-centered approach to champion the ill and their families. Senior author of Social Work Services as a Component of Palliative Care with Terminal Cancer Patients (Haworth Press). Now, and with the help of her daughter, Helen shares her life’s learning that to ease suffering, the art of care must embody patient wisdom.

Irene Allison – World traveler, creative writer, former teacher and technical author, Irene inherited her mother’s unconventional spirit and love for the power of story. In this mother-daughter collaboration, a rallying cry for care when we need it most, Irene is honored to join a growing movement that invites heart into healthcare and compassion into our lives. For more information, visit: www.ireneallison.com

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